When chatting with girls, many boys will think about the correct way to reply to girls' messages, so they use various chatting routines mechanically. In the end, girls still respond only mediocrely.

There is no universal formula for chatting, only universal ideas. If you want to have a good chat with a girl, you must have the right idea. So what is the correct reply idea when chatting with a girl?

1. Respond positively

If a girl behaves as follows:

(1) Replies quickly

(2) There are many words

(3) Take the initiative to start a topic when there is no topic

(4) State what happened today to express your emotions

(5) Praise you

These are considered as you have established a preliminary attraction to this girl, so at this time, if the girl responds positively to you, you should also respond positively.

For example:

The girl said: "I think your signature is so cool"

You can reply: "That's necessary, cool people deserve cool signatures~" (positive response)

Or reply: "I know you have taste." (positive response)< /p>

Another example:

A girl says: "I have to work overtime today, so annoying." You eat delicious food.”

Using positive responses can help girls understand your true thoughts and not think that you are always doing nothing, which is one of the sources of security.

2. Negative response

In one sentence, a girl’s behavior or words will make you very unhappy. . For example: I disrespect you very much and scold you...

Don't get used to this, otherwise she will get worse. Unless you have a close relationship with each other before, such as classmates and colleagues, you can reply normally and don't ruin your social circle.

If she is a strange girl, or she has dated you a few times, and starts to talk rudely to you,

For example:

The girl says: "Send me a message Red envelope, talk to me again."

You can reply: "Don't do this, otherwise I will think you are low" (negative response, have your own attitude)

You can. Even if people don't like you, you must make people respect you. This is very important. Of course, not all girls are worth your time to attack them.

Remember: whatever her attitude is, you will have it too. Contact with girls requires more than just words, I think it’s moreWhat matters is the idea